The Real ABC of Blogging5 min read

When we talk about ABCs, we talk about the basics of a particular skill. 

When it comes to blogging, the ABCs that often get shared with aspiring bloggers are:

  • Understanding the platform you are using.
  • Figuring out a profitable niche.
  • Becoming a prolific content creator.

While all of these aspects are crucial to becoming a successful blogger, the truth is that the real ABC of blogging can be defined by these 3 words…

 Authentic Blogging Community.

If you want to jumpstart your blog and figure out the best way to attract readers, to add value, and even to potentially monetize your blog, then you have to keep these three words in mind.

How do you build an authentic blogging community?

It’s simple. Not easy, but simple.

You focus on creating value.

This means that you need to constantly create content with the goal of providing your readers with a positive experience. 

And it’s not just about the quality of your content, but also about the user experience (choosing the proper theme, the proper fonts), about engaging your readers (replying to comments, asking questions at the end of your blog posts).

That’s what building an authentic community is all about.

You’ve got to think of blogging as being engaged in a conversation.

Do you feel like you’re talking with your readers or at them? Then you might be turning a conversation into a monologue, and you risk alienating a lot of potential readers.

The sweet spot, so to speak, is to feel like both you and your readers are adding to the conversation that goes on within your community.

The Art of Blogging for An Audience

What I love most about blogging is how confusing the process seems to be. Beyond having to consistently produce quality content, you also have to network with other bloggers, take care of various social media accounts, guest blog, interview, connect with your readers, and feed your brain with as much information as possible.

And I am sure this makes you wonder…

What exactly matters most when it comes to building an audience? Should you prioritize content creation over networking, or is it the other way around? Should you try to balance them both, feeling like you’re walking on a tightrope on a daily basis?

Well, the truth is that how you treat your readers matters an awful lot. So much so that the way you answer the following questions can make even the most brilliant content you share not receive even a single like:

  • Do you reply to your readers?
  • How do you reply to your readers?
  • Do you talk down to your readers?
  • If I emailed you right now, would you respond?

Before we get too far into the topic, let me be clear: I don’t always reply to comments or e-mails. Some days I can’t respond, some messages are not worthy of a response, some messages don’t make much sense. 

So I’m not perfect. Far from it.

But I’ve got to tell you that even though I always give 100% when it comes to creating content if I don’t interact with my readers for any period of time, my views and comments tend to drop significantly.

The Phenomenon of Reputation

“A person rises on a word and falls on a syllable.”

DonDeLillo, Cosmopolis

The way you interact with your reader tends to spread through the internet faster than your actual content. Whether they’ve had a great experience with you or exactly the opposite, they tell other people all about it.

Word of mouth is stronger than ever before, so please be mindful of the way you interact with your readers.

The truth is that most bloggers are kind of bitter they don’t have the thousands of followers they’ve dreamt up the moment they signed up for a blog, and while they’re busy chasing more followers, they neglect (or downright treat like crap) those who are already their readers.

It’s a bad business model, to say the least.

I can never understand why, if I am the first person to comment on a blog post (and it’s a genuine comment) the blogger doesn’t acknowledge me somehow.

At least, if you get hundreds of comments and e-mails per day, like I do, you kind of understand them being busy. But otherwise?

The truth is that if you want your content to propagate through the web, the first thing you have to do is take great care of your readers.

  • Reply to their comments and e-mails.
  • Visit their blogs.
  • Answer their questions.
  • Offer them free stuff: downloads, tutorials, ebooks, etc.
  • Do your best to provide as much value and access to your readers.
  • Because this is the trick: you can be a brilliant content creator, and you can offer for free the kind of stuff that others are charging a lot of money, but if your readers don’t have access to you, then it won’t matter.
  • Nobody cares how much you know until they know how much you care about them.
  • It’s as simple as that.
  • And you want to know another advantage to interact with your readers?
  • The conversations you have with your readers inspire your blogging. It’s how you find out what they like to read from you, what they’d want to read from you…
  • If you’re feeling creatively blocked, it’s also probably because you’re not listening to your readers. You’re not talking with them, you’re just talking at them.

Believe it or not, the way you treat your readers is reflected in your blogging and its results.

It shows.

Whether or not you care about the stuff you write about or the folks who are reading it.

Someone once told me that if you want to know what you’re made of, you just have to take a good look in the mirror. What’s inside tends to reflect on the outside.

The same for blogging.

What to know if you’re any good at blogging?

Go through some of your comments, and tell me what you see.


This lesson is straight out of the Blogging 101: Crash Course.

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Cristian Mihai
Became Internet famous by the age of 23. Never recovered. I write short author bios all over the web. I’m an acquired taste. Don’t like me? Acquire some taste.
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8 Comments

  1. Great post it’s really hard educative

  2. Nice ideas🙌

  3. Amazing! Something hit home for me here.
    user experience- this did it for me. I am not looking to be profitable blogger. I have it for accountability and some future things I need it for. What I do need is readers though. Otherwise what is the point. And I have kinda looked at it as a reader subscribed yas- but what the heck why are they not engaging.
    I do think I have engaging and interesting posts. But hey. It is about an experience! An overall experience. not just about reading the post and how it is. I need to cater for their experience and not for potential new once only. So interesting, as this is somewhat a issue I have in general in my life. Not nurturing what I have. And it shows in what I do for the once already subscribed. Sorry for the short story comment. Was just such a revelation!

    • There are a ton of different factors that influence engagement levels.

      Lots to talk about.

      As an example, over time, user engagement decreases as older followers stop commenting. So, if you stop growing, engagement levels actually tend to drop.

      It is what it is.

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