What is a Blogger’s Most Valuable Trait?1 min read

  • How can we write better blog posts?
  • Why do even skilled writers miss the target sometimes?
  • What is one leading cause of blog posts that fails to influence readers?

I would argue that there’s this one trait that separates great bloggers from so-so ones, and it has less to do with words and grammar than you might think.

What is this magic thing?

Empathy.

Understanding your reader has to be the most important part of any writer’s job, but it’s especially true when blogging. Knowing what a reader is likely to be thinking helps you to anticipate and mirror those thoughts, offer clarification where it is needed, and build trust.

And yet, most bloggers fail when they write about themselves, not the reader. When you’re more concerned about your own needs, or how you appear, or your own personal preferences for style and format instead of finding out what your prospective reader really prefer, you are setting yourself up to fail.

Think about these things whenever you sit down to write your posts:

  • What objections might they raise?
  • Which are their most urgent motivations?
  • How would a reader prefer to receive this information?

Getting these insights can be as simple as talking to your readers. Ask open questions with surveys, rather than leading them to the answer you’re looking for.

Reading your reader’s mind could be the most valuable thing you do for the effectiveness of your blogging, while focusing on your own preferences and desires is likely the worst.

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  • B.Joe

    There are times when bloggers need to write about themselves – to share their experiences, mistakes and opinions.

    For me, a blogger’s most valuable trait would be persistence followed by the hunger to always learn something new

  • tellbelief

    Yes, agree. We may think on this too. Writing is expression of thoughts/imaginations and one should not fell in selling aspect due to expectations

  • JanBeek

    I like the idea of asking open-ended questions, surveying our readers, finding out what’s important to them. I will try that. Thanks, Cristian.

  • Aussiewalkabouts

    Such a great article, thanks for the inspiration!

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