The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide To Blogging11 min read

Let’s be honest for a moment. There’s no substitute for hard work, dedication, time, energy, and passion, and those of you who want a shortcut will be disappointed by this guide.

Of course, there are some things that you must do in order to be successful as a blogger.

So, yeah, let’s get down to business.

What To Blog About?

This question comes up quite often. Someone wants to blog because they believe it’s cool or it’s going to earn them an extra dollar, or maybe because they enjoy writing. So… what do you blog about?

A lot of people will advise you to find a niche. Do a bit of research and try to figure out what are the trending topics, and try to find one that is relatively new so there isn’t much competition.

I do not like this idea. Not that it’s not artistic, but it lacks any soul. If you write about stuff you couldn’t care less about, then you’re not doing a much better job than a robot.

Blog about something that sets your soul on fire. Write this down. Print it out. Put it up on your wall or fridge or on your desk. Find the thing that sets your soul on fire, in a good or in a bad way, something that you are terribly passionate about, something that makes your heart beat faster.

Maybe it’s a topic that makes you angry or bitter or scared, maybe it’s something you love. It doesn’t matter. If it makes you feel something, you should write about it.

Blog about the stuff you’d like to read about. Would you follow a blog like yours? If no, then it’s back to the drawing board.

The word, whether written or not, has one main goal: to make two people feel less lonely. Yes, we use words in such a way as to figure out if someone else feels and thinks and acts the same way we do. We have stories as a means to connect people, to make them imagine the same thing and create a sense of togetherness.

If you care deeply about a certain topic, odds are someone else will care also. And, if they don’t, then your passion can make them care.

Figure out your why.

Why blog? Why not do something else? Why spend so much time writing stuff on a computer to share them with the world?

What are your objectives? What do you want out of all this?

It’s important to figure out your why, because it determines your expectations and how much energy and effort you’re willing to put into it.

Those of you who say, “it’s just a blog” will forever be damned to spend their time in blogging hell, struggling to get anyone to even notice that they exist.

It’s not just a blog. It’s a blog. Your blog. Your little space on the Internet.

So, what do you want?

Money? Fame? To help others? To find like-minded individuals and connect with them? To create a personal brand? To create a platform for other products? To find your target audience?

Figure out why you want to blog and what you want to get out of it. Write it down.

Patience, patience, patience.

Did you write down why you want to blog and what you want to get out of it?

Do you have certain expectations? Say, you want ten thousand followers in the first year. A million visitors. To earn X amount of money.

Whatever you expect to happen, it’s going to take a while longer than you predict. Even if you are all negative about it, it’s still going to take a while longer. About two times longer. Take that into consideration.

You could write down that if you do not reach your blogging goals within the first six months, you’ll quit. And then give it a year to reach your goals.

Things never happen the way we expect them to.

See what others are doing.

Do you post poems on your blog? Can’t hurt to check some of the other blogs that do the same. See the way they post, their schedule, the themes they use, the visual layout, all that.

I’m not saying you should do the same, but it’s also not worth it if you keep yourself away from them out of fear of somehow subconsciously copying them.

My father worked in the restaurant business for thirty years and never went to another restaurant. Yes. He never checked the competition, their menus, their pricing, and the way they conducted their business. He went bankrupt in 2008.

You can do things your way if you genuinely believe there’s a better way or you want to do things a certain way because that’s who you are; that blogging style represents you.

Content is King.

First month of blogging. April 2012. I was reviewing books and movies. I thought it was a rather boring thing to do (yet I did it anyway), that there were far too many similar blogs, and that, in the end, it was just a blog meant to reach people so they could buy my books.

I was blogging once a day, and got some 500 views. That’s an average of what? 15 views per blog post? Yeah.

It was just a blog. It received just some attention. That was all.

Everything changed when I wrote my first opinion piece. Someone had written a book about writing bestsellers – there was a recipe, a strict set of rules to be followed and anyone could write a bestseller. The author’s best selling book was this guide on writing bestsellers, which was kind of ironic.

As a side note: one should never give advice one does not follow to see if it’s valid or not. And one should be successful in the business he’s trying to offer insight into. Just saying.

So, yes, I wrote my first opinion piece. Didn’t hold back. It was something that I cared about, because I thought that people were being told what they wanted to hear, and they thought they could buy a shortcut to fame and fortune with the price of a paperback, while it only provided a shortcut for the author of the book.

My post went live at midnight, and twelve hours later I had 1,600 views.

I knew my why, I knew what made me feel alive, and I knew what I had to do. Art has always been my passion, and I decided to write my thoughts on the artistic process, to write about my own struggles writing, and to offer insight into how an artist’s mind works.

As my own interests and focus shifted, so did the main topics on this blog: I now write about life, inspiration, and motivation. I write about developing a proper mindset, about being the best version of yourself that you are capable of being, while being aware that nothing comes easy. Stuff like that.

Content is king. Write the kind of things you’d like to read about. The kind of things that set your soul on fire. If you get goosebumps thinking about a certain topic, write about it. Even if your mind somehow tricks you into thinking that no one will care. Trust me, they will.


Engage the audience of your blog, engage different people. Read blogs, comment, connect with people. No man is an island. Do not advertise your blog on other people’s though.

I rarely approve comments that have a link at the end of them. It’s disrespectful.

I also believe that you shouldn’t overdo it. Just like SEO or using social media, it’s a sort of side hustle. Your main business is writing the best posts that you can possibly write while developing your skills to write better ones.

Remember, content is king.

Tony Robbins says that people major in minor things. In case you missed it, content is king. All else is secondary.

There are also nice things you can do to get more people to read your blog. Writing guest posts, hosting other bloggers on your site, finding like-minded individuals on Facebook Groups and whatnot.

The idea is to have fun and connect with others. Do not think of it as a transaction of sorts. You do something for someone, and they have to do something for you. It doesn’t work like that.

Try to figure out a way to do more for others. More and more. This is the idea. When engaging other bloggers, when writing posts. Try to ask yourself if what you are writing is somehow useful. If not, then maybe you shouldn’t be wasting your time.

The Visual Layout

Text intensive blogs that have a black background drive me nuts. Or just ugly blogs. Don’t know. I like things clean. I like to know my way around a blog after the first visit.

Spend some time to get this right. To find the right theme. It’s extremely important.

Social Media

Allow sharing on all platforms. All of them.

Allow comments.

Allow reblogs.

And create an online presence on the social media platforms that most speak to you, that are best suited for your style. You know, the ones you spend your time on when procrastinating. Whether it’s Facebook, Pinterest, Twitter, or Instagram, it does not matter what some expert says is the best platform, if you enjoy some platform more than others, then do your best there… it will pay off.

It’s all about passion. And mindset.

In case years of repeating myself did not do the trick, passion is essential. In blogging, in life, in love. Don’t be lukewarm. Just be energetic, fun, intense, interested.

Develop the right mindset. Imagine the world resting upon your shoulders. What you write will decide the entire world’s fate. It’s a fun game, try not to overdo it though. Or tell anyone else about it.

Act as if you are the blogger that you want to be.

The blogstar.

It does not matter if no one reads your blog, because they will.

It does not matter if no one comments, because they will.

Don’t lose heart. Keep going.

When teaching my mentorship program, I spend a lot of time explaining stuff like this. Helping other bloggers develop the right kind of mindset, to set certain goals, and to get rid of crazy expectations.

One crucial aspect is this: you must be willing to keep going long after you decided it’s best to quit. In fact, the moment you feel like giving up, that’s when it’s showtime. Count on this. No matter how excited you are in the beginning, you will want to quit.

I wanted to quit not in the first few months, but a few years in, when I already had tens of thousands of followers and had to reply to some thousand e-mails a week.

You’ll want to give up. Don’t.

You’ll want to find some easier way to do it. Don’t. There is not easy way. You must do the work, do your best, and then things will happen just when you were ready to throw in the towel.

Work Ethic.

Consistency is key. Also, it’s important to show up. That’s half the battle. Show up, write your posts, do your best, whether you feel like it or not.

I loathe certain myths, like talent or inspiration, because they are just excuses. Lazy people trying to find reasons to continue being lazy.

When that day comes when you don’t feel like writing anything, and you’d much rather binge watch television or sit on a park bench and stare at the sky, force yourself to sit at your desk and just write. Anything at all.

You’ll be amazed that it won’t take long before you start writing stuff that you can actually use. Soon after that, you’ll actually feel inspired.

Inspiration must find you working, talent is the hard work others see and can’t explain.

Keep human.

Try not to forget you’re a human being. And you are doing stuff for other human beings, with other human beings. Do not become obsessed with statistics, numbers. You’re not a machine, and this is not some computer game.

Those numbers are real people, with feelings and emotions and they are reading your words. If that is not something magic to you, I kindly suggest you find something else to do with your time.

It is easy to forget this. So, so easy. Especially when the numbers go up.

Don’t become afraid that if you change things you’ll lose your audience. There’s no reason to congeal your blog and its future because of fear.

Also, a great rule to remember is that writing is the side-effect of life. You go out there and live life, and absorb as much information as possible, and you’ll never run out of things to blog about.

Cristian Mihai

Became Internet famous by the age of 23. Never recovered. I write short author bios all over the web. I’m an acquired taste. Don’t like me? Acquire some taste.

69 thoughts on “The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide To Blogging11 min read

  1. Your article resonated with me. When I was relatively new to the internet I wanted more than social internet sites like Twitter and Facebook and was curious to know if I could set up my own website to write longer articles. It took long time to figure out how to connect with my readers and make my blogs more interesting. All of the points you raise are on the money. I haven’t worked out all the finer details yet like positioning pictures just where I would like them. I now love blogging when I feel inspired and don’t feel a compulsion to make a schedule. I like feeling relaxed about it while still doing my research and aiming for reader’s enjoyment.

  2. Love this. So true. Words must come from the heart and perseverance is key. It’s so easy to give up. But giving up brings that saddest od feelings – regret. And I don’t think you should write in the expectation of getting an audience. You simply have to write because you have something you truly want to share. Thanks for this wonderful piece, Cristian.

  3. This is my favourite post of yours, especially the part about staying human. I found it very moving, so you have definitely made the connection you mentioned earlier in the post.

  4. Reblogged this on Books&Sstuff and commented:
    A great piece to read before you take another step. Truly opened me to some of the things I was being afraid of . There you bloggers! read this once before taking off the flight to your new journey of blogging….

  5. Cristian, I went back to one of your older posts. Number One item to take back is Passion. You write with so much of this, and sometimes my blog could use more passion.

  6. Great info here. I like to think of the words that I write as tools to shift people … shift them in their thinking, feeling and move them in some way. My shifting is all geared toward personal empowerment, self-love, inspiration etc. I just love when I can move someone through my words and make them feel better! It’s awesomesauce! 🙂

  7. Goosebumps, that’s what happens when I read something that comes from someones soul. Love this post and all the advice. I will have to share this with others as one of my favorite posts this month. You definitely have the passion, it’s in all these words you have written down. Thanks for sharing what all us bloggers need to hear now and then.

  8. Yes, this is such good advice! I always learn from you, Cristian. “There’s no substitute for hard work, dedication, time, energy, and passion…” you said a mouthful!!

  9. This is exactly what I needed to hear. It reinforced my original thought of just blogging and blogging with my heart and soul. Saying and sharing whatever it was that inspires me at that very moment. I’m eclectic and multiple things set my soul on fire. No niche here in my world. Thank you for sharing this!

  10. This was very inspiring as I read every line. There were many aha moments…
    I have been blogging for awhile and your encouragement to keep going is helpful. There are times when I just want to quit. But honestly, I enjoy writing. Thanks for your words of wisdom. It is totally appreciated.

    1. Thank you, Patricia.

      Ultimately, it all comes down to how much you want it, because if you really want something, you either find a way or make one.

  11. Thank you for the advice to not quit. I am a new blogger, and I must admit it is a bit overwhelming at times. Question: does “view” mean that people are actually reading my words?

      1. True. But like mi usually say, you can’t successfully measure influence, because your influence spreads far and wide.
        Many would read and never comment but nonetheless, you have influenced them.

        The views count and at the same time count less if you are putting out your soul and heart out there.

        Those who your writing is meant for would connect and they would get influenced by you.

        Keep putting your work out there, Kisha.

        It will all count in the end in the lives of people you are creating content for.

        Get the views but focus on your why just as Cristian said.

        Keep coming back here to get inspired and get some learning on the art of bloging.


  12. I sound like a broken record sorry, but again what I love about your post on blogging, is that you give life lessons. I believe you are a very good life coach because nothing great in this life can be done without passion, discipline, consistency and ethics.
    Thank you so much ❤

    1. Thank you so much for your compliments. I think that everything is connected, and everything we do provides lessons that can be applied to other areas of life as well. Or adapted to help us in other areas. Maybe that’s why I write about blogging, and that advice can be applied to other areas of life as well.

  13. Yes, writing is a side-effect of life… I am glad you reminded us of that. If we spend all our time “punching those damn keys,” and fail to log out and get out, we’ll soon run dry! See ya, Cristian; I’m outta here. <3

  14. An excellent post and a good reminder of the ways we need to look at our posts. I try to do all of the above but must still be missing something. However I am inspired to keep going.

  15. Aw, I love that. “To make two people less lonely.” I think I write first so that people out there who are like me feel less alone. The second reason is to get all this clutter out of my brain and formulate it into real thoughts that I can look back on later. -Nina

  16. So very true….often we get disappointed if we don’t get the expected results… But patience is the key. Put in your full heart into it and let it be..!!
    Thanks for a very inspiring write up!!

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