How to Be a Blogger Everyone Listens To1 min read

Although I’m a big fan of original content, I also recognize that joining the conversation that other bloggers have started is one of the most important aspects of blogging.

But that requires one skill: the ability to add to the conversation.

While you may not be a rhetorical master, there’s an easy way for anyone to become a persuasive conversational blogger. The key is to offer more than just your opinion, since everyone seems to have one of those. You’ll get better results if you give people something they can relate to at a personal level.


Tell a story.

Think about it. When having a conversation, you find something to say in response fairly quickly based on the personal memories that the speaker stirred. Without those memories, you’d have nothing to say. Those memories are tied to experiences, and experiences are stories.

The reason why a story works better than simply stating your opinion is because a story evokes vivid mental imagery in your reader’s minds, based on their own memories of experiences. You’ve now created a relational bond with your readers that makes it more likely that they will see (and agree with) your point of view. Don’t tell them that you’re right; let them tell themselves that you’re right, based on their own similar experiences.

Give it a shot. Next time you see something that inspires you to blog, take a moment and identify the one or more experiences that prompted that reaction. It can be a personal incident, a professional anecdote, or a success story about one of your clients or customers.

Stories are the key to selling people on your ideas and authority in an engaging fashion.


  1. If anything stories carry weight when it comes to communication. Stories are a simple way to share life lessons without being too serious. As a teacher, I see always the great effect stories have. A lesson in which a story is shared is hardly forgotten compared to a lesson I just taught facts.

  2. Spot on advice! I tend to be pretty opinionated so I have to work on this part!

  3. Thank you for this. I always worry it will put people off if I talk about me but I can now see that including a short story for your comment/response can actually be far more helpful and personable 🙏

  4. Yet another insightful post! Thank you!

  5. 🙂 Good points, Cristian! All writing is story telling if it’s done right — even a recipe.

  6. Love this blog post! Great advice and point of view.

  7. Both in comment sections and posts, adding personal stories make a difference. People get connected to me through anecdotes and they share similar experiences in comment sections. In a post where I mentioned about childhood traumas, many readers related with it and they are happy that I shared it. Telling a story is never old fashioned.

  8. Exactly be transparent, be real, be yourself.

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