[Blogging Mindset] Desire and Intuition3 min read

Here, at The Art of Blogging, we try our best to write about various techniques that should enhance your blogging, while also being aware that even though there’s a bit of craft in every art, not everything comes down to following a bunch of rules.

Truth be told, it took me a long time to figure out the techniques that I write about on this blog. I built a blog to over one hundred thousand readers without being aware of most of them, the same way I learned English by watching movies, TV shows, and reading a lot.

So, what’s the deal? What does this all mean?

Well, read on if you’re curious.


How bad do you want to be successful as a blogger? Do you kind of want it? Do you rationalize that it does not matter? Are you just another blogger?

Desire trumps technique every single time, the same way you can probably think of someone who isn’t very smart, isn’t very talented, yet is wildly successful at whatever it is they’re doing.


Because they want it. More than you, more than me, more than anyone else around them.

I started my blog tired, angry, alone, broke, sick, sick and tired of being me. That was my motivation. I was literally hungry, and even though I didn’t know much about blogging, I wanted it bad enough to go after it as if my life depended on it.

Ask yourself, How bad do you want it?

And be honest when you answer.

Maybe you’re not getting the results you want, because deep down you don’t want this bad enough.


What does your gut say? Did it feel right writing that blog post? Did it feel right to edit it that much? Or to publish it without even reading it over once? Hmm…

I’d say that we all intuitively know what to do. What’s the right course of action. Most often, we are good at telling others how they should act. Well, listen to that same voice, not the inner critic, not the voice of fear, not the one of doom, not the one that wants to be liked by everyone else, no matter the consequences.

Listen to that friendly voice who knows what’s best for you. Not the lonely voice of despair, but the one who is oftentimes buried so deep, among all the information we store in our minds without even being aware.

Use those gut feelings when blogging.

Blogging is a balancing act.

If it’s all heart and soul, you risk losing your mind. If you approach it like a dead body to be dissected, you’ll get lost in stats that don’t fulfill you and wonder what’s wrong with your writing.

Don’t be the boring teacher, but rather the cool kid at school who throws those amazing parties everyone wants to attend.

Desire and intuition can help you figure things out. Don’t be afraid to express yourself, don’t be afraid to acknowledge and use them both.

Even though failure is a real possibility, if you really want it, admit it. Use that feeling in our favor, to punch those damn keys, to write about stuff that matters to you.

Cristian Mihai

Became Internet famous by the age of 23. Never recovered. I write short author bios all over the web. I’m an acquired taste. Don’t like me? Acquire some taste.

15 thoughts on “[Blogging Mindset] Desire and Intuition3 min read

  1. Great points to bring up! Thank you!
    Failure is part of the path. It helps us move forward with lessons learned. It means we are not static.

  2. Several books I’ve been reading have suggestioned ‘Think and Grow Rich’, and while it’s not my general area of focus, I’ve decided to gie it a try. The general principle is that the stronger the desire, the more likely you are to achieve. This post is like the blogging version of it: Think and Grow Your Blog 🙂

  3. Your point about intuition came just at the right moment. I had been working on a post yesterday but it wasn’t going well so I put it aside. Going back to it today I can see the reason why It was a struggle – a signal from my instinct that’s it was the wrong topic entirely.

    1. Always listen to your gut, but be willing to ignore it after pondering it for a while. It’s not all instinct. After all, we’d still be living in caves if it were like that.

  4. 🔨 you nailed it yet again being a wizard with words.. thanks for showing us that mirror to see reflections of our true desires and intuition.

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